"Keep love in your heart. A life without it is like a sunless garden when the flowers are dead."
"True love stories never have endings."
Welcome to healing, Actually:
Hi, I’m Alexie Lofstrom-Dewes, MA, LPC-S (she/her)!
You can just call me Alexie, though. Welcome to Healing, Actually, LLC!
I help people heal their trauma by focusing on the nervous system and establishing safety in the body first. From there we dig into the deeper work of healing our wounded parts.
I work primarily with women (Trans Women are women) and non-binary individuals.
People I work with are often interested in working on issues with Anxiety, ADHD/Autusm/AudHD, Divorce, Narcissistic Abuse Recovery, PTSD or c-PTSD, and Religious Trauma.
The very first thing I want to do in the therapy process is to help you create a grounding practice that helps you regulate and care for your nervous system. From there, we do the work of healing the deeper emotional wounds that are causing issues in daily life.
I have completed certification training in Trauma Treatment. I also have training and employ methods from Internal Family Systems, Somatic Interventions, EFT Tapping, and Guided Imagery. I also have training in Reiki 1 and 2.
Virtual Individual Therapy by appointment Mondays, Wednesdays, and Thursdays
In-person Individual Therapy or Reiki by appointment on Fridays
at Kismet Collective in Tulsa, OK
Currently accepting New In-person and Virtual Clients.
A Little about Me as a practitioner
- Queer
- Neurodivergent
- Witchy
- Gender-Affirming
- Pro LGBTQIA+ Rights
- Pro Trans Rights
- Pro Women's Rights
- Pro Immigrants' Rights
- Pro Palestine
- Anti-fascist
- Non-Judging
- Deeply Caring
- Committed to Best Practices
- Challenging when needed
- Always Learning
- Abuse Recovery
- ADHD/Autism
- Anxiety
- Chronic Stress
- Depression
- Gender Identity
- PTSD (c-PTSD)
- Narcissistic Abuse Recovery
- Religious Trauma
- Mindfulness
- Meditation
- Guided Imagery
- IFS
- EFT Tapping
- Nervous System Reset
- Somatic Interventions
- Trauma Interventions
A Little about Me as a person
I am queer, neurodivergent, witchy, and live with chronic illness. I grew up in evangelical Christianity, which I have since and continue to deconstruct from. I savor spending my free-time with my life partner, my daughter, and our feline daughter. For fun, I enjoy reading, writing, watching British reality TV, and studying astrology and yoga.
We are stardust with nervous systems- let's treat both with care.
"This woman is amazing! I will forever recommend her!" ~ Kevin & Annabelle
Investment
You can learn more about Thrizer and their programs Here!
Individual Therapy Investment
Free 10 Minute Consult
Initial Session Fee- $150
60 Minute Session- $150
45 Minute Session- $125
Insurance Information For Therapy Services
I do not take any insurance directly, but your plan may cover Out of Network Services that reimburses you a portion of the session fee once you submit a superbill to them which I can provide for you.
If you don’t want to deal with your insurance directly or you can’t wait for a reimbursement, I utilize a platform called Thrizer that for a small fee will submit claims on your behalf. They also offer a program in which they will pay your insurance portion of the session fee, so that you only have to pay your co-pay (after deductible is met) and your insurance will reimburse them, so you don’t have to wait for that reimbursement.
Reiki Investment
Free 10 Minute Phone Consult
45 Minute Session- $77
60 Minute Session- $97
Please note that Reiki is not covered by Insurance
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